Mediators

The Mediator man has many friends and acquaintances and is a great judge of character. It's hard to hide from him whether he's bad or good, what state he's in.

 

Always ready to keep company, he is a master at telling fascinating stories and is often the center of attention. These are usually stories about some sort of worldly event. As a rule, these stories always include people and lots of visual, tactile and olfactory details. The narrative is dynamic, with intrigue, gripping, and accompanied by well-dosed, satisfying emotions.

"Mediator" likes not only to have fun, but also to eat well, and often quite good at cooking himself. It's a hospitable person. If you are a guest of his, he will gladly indulge you: "Help yourselves, taste it! It's just delicious!" Blurted out with pleasure when the invitees praise his treat. But arrogance and conceit are not usually in his character. "Mediator" knows how to be uncommonly appropriate in any company, always showing delicacy and unobtrusiveness.

 

It often happens that he cheers up the whole company, maintaining the atmosphere of joy and friendliness, but just started a scandal, something went wrong - look, he's gone. Wise by worldliness, he always stands aside with quiet adherence to what he does not consider his own, to what he dislikes. But don't be misled by his softness and pliability. At a critical moment, he'll be able to stand up for himself.

 

When first meeting a woman, the "Mediator" is charming. He jokes, flirts masterfully, can quickly cut the distance and move on to informal communication. A soft charm shines through in every movement.

 

Male Mediators are not indifferent to the female sex. It costs them nothing to win over any woman they like. The "Mediator" grooms beautifully, one might say, professionally, so that few can resist his charms. If he is in the mood for marriage, he will always find a suitable girlfriend, and no matter how difficult her character will be able to get along well with her.

He likes the warmth of family relationships and the comfort of home. He likes to be served. At the same time, he himself automatically takes care of his loved ones, carefully monitoring not only his own health, but also making sure that his family members go to the doctor regularly, are healthy, well fed and beautifully dressed. 

 

"The Mediator is endowed with a fine sense of beauty. He appreciates antiques, can come up with an unconventional interior in his own home or even work with his hands to make it nice and cozy around. The main thing is to have someone to do it for! But the errands of others, he does not like, and for a long time if he was asked to do something. But when the mood arises, he will do everything himself, and perfectly - he has very skillful hands.

 

True, it doesn't happen often because he's lazy. If the "Mediator" can not decide what to do, he can spend hours and days in languid lounge on the couch, by nature he is a sybarite, loves to be served, so he does not have to make unnecessary movements. And he takes such care with the true grace of a lazy cat.

Sweet, courteous, soft - these are just a few of the things that can be said about a woman of the "Mediator" type. She has a captivating femininity to her, which could be complemented by furs and elegant hats. She is careful with her clothing, paying special attention to her choice of accessories - belts, handkerchiefs and handbags.

 

Even a modest wardrobe does not prevent the "Mediator" from looking dignified. She knows how to pick out an outfit that harmonizes with the color of her hair, eyes, lips, and even skin like no one else. Representatives of this type have skilful hands, so they perfectly sew and knit, giving free rein to their imagination. They taste great.

 

Usually women of this type would be very delicate and well-mannered, sometimes even insecure. It's hard to imagine them allowing themselves to be rude or, God forbid, profanity.

 

When introduced, the "Mediator" keeps a dignified, mysterious and flirtatious demeanor. She's funny and responds readily to your jokes, but knows how to deflect intrusive advances with dignity. She has a good understanding of what's going on between her and her partner and knows how to make an intrigue out of a relationship. Getting to know the Mediator is simple. Although she does not take active steps towards rapprochement, limiting herself to transparent hints, but happily responds to the proposals of others. Keep in mind that making an appointment is risky (sure to mix up the location or be at least half an hour late). It's better to go straight home and get fed... Relationships with her are easy and relaxed. Simple and clear words are good to use: "love," "family," "well-being." It's a subject she could talk about for hours. Such women value in men both appearance and intellect, as well as position in society. And the full set of these qualities are not, as a rule, possessed by youths.

 

The Mediator is a wonderful keeper of the home. She's a gentle wife and a great hostess. She loves children wholeheartedly and can stay home with them for long periods of time. For the sake of his family, she is ready to sacrifice her career, and never regrets this, finding great pleasure in supporting her husband and take care of him, live the interests of children, take care of the house.

Two traits most characteristic of women of this type are extraordinary patience and always ready to care for others. She is very difficult to take out of temper, as her humanity knows practically no limits. She is always ready to understand and forgive her partner, to smooth out the embarrassment, pretend that he did not notice the slip or rudeness. She treats it all with understanding and angelic patience.

 

Girlfriends, too, can count on her if they need to cry grief, share joy, if they need sympathy and empathy. They will be comforted, fed, supported, laughed at, and distracted.

 

They love inviting guests, throwing real parties for their small company, surprising everyone with their culinary talents and warming with their quiet but deeply expressive emotionality.

 

At work "Mediator" does not show service zeal, does not like the additional loads, and the basic ones too. But that doesn't mean in any way that it doesn't work well. In those cases that she succeeds, perfect order reigns. Intermediaries can be found among educators, teachers, medical professionals, artists and accountants. Their main value to the team is maintaining a good climate.