Identical relations

If your partner has the same personality type as you (identical to you), then a relationship of complete understanding develops between you, but an inability to help each other. Identical personality types see the world through the same eyes, process incoming information in a similar way, draw almost the same conclusions, and face the same problems. Seeing this, each one develops sympathy for the other. You want to support your partner, justify them in one way or another, because you feel that you would have done the same in this situation.

In Marriage: Since spouses are not duals, it is most acceptable for them to be identical. Sympathy, trust, affection, and love arise very easily towards an identical. It is generally easy for a man and woman of the same type, with other successful ratios (age, etc.), to get along. Although later, the same people are always a little tormented, unconsciously wanting to get from each other what only a dual can give. However, if there is love, then it is not boring with an identical, especially when the conversation concerns a topic in which they are both strong.

With children: special tenderness and sympathy arise for a child of an identical type. Here, an adult of the same type can not only understand the child, recognizing and remembering themselves, but also help them truly and exactly as needed - this is facilitated by the difficult experience of their own development in the fight against exactly the same weaknesses and problems...

It also means a lot that an identical child is truly your copy, your repetition and continuation. This cannot be attributed so fully and unconditionally to children of other types, even duals.

In business communication: Identical relationships can be both very and not very desirable, depending on what functions are assigned to them. So, a dreamer-leader will not be satisfied with a dreamer-guard at all, but a press secretary of the same type will perfectly understand and express the thoughts of their boss.

The general rule is this: where complementarity of functions is required, "identical" cooperation is undesirable, but where substitution or duplication is expected, an identical person will cope better than anyone else. It's like entrusting the work to your own clones.

identical relationships are better suited

On the other hand, identical communication quickly becomes boring. Not receiving new information from your partner, you see the futility of such communication. An uninformative partner seems boring, uninteresting. Over time, either neutral or cool relationships are established. This is not surprising, because after exchanging information, it is no longer interesting to discuss it, knowing in advance that you can come to the same conclusions yourself. The main preferences of a person rarely change throughout life. Dispersing boring monotony becomes more and more difficult over time.

monotonous identical relationships

An exception is the case of a large difference in experience or knowledge. Then there can be a great interest and attraction to each other, as there is a quick and effective learning - pumping information. Such relationships are ideal for a "teacher-student" pair. Joint work in this case is also effective, as there is an addition of forces in one direction due to the similarity of temperaments, and the understandability of the partner's lifestyle and their thoughts.

It should be noted that the life attitudes (for example, political views) of identicals can differ significantly - in the range from mutual reinforcement to complete incompatibility of positions.

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