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INFJ

  The main character trait of the Humanist (INFJ) is empathy for people.  He is always ready to help people who turn to him for support. He has a negative attitude to violence, contrasting it with calm stubbornness and endurance. Although tolerant and compliant, he does not forgive treason and injustice.
  He maintains smooth, friendly relations with everyone.  He is able to reconcile hostile parties, but at the same time remain objective. He does not accumulate evil in himself, forgives his offenders and ill-wishers. Able to listen to a person, sympathize, relieve emotional stress from him. Deeply experiences negative, dramatic events in the lives of others, even if they do not directly affect him.

  Hardworking, punctual and disciplined. He prefers a calm, measured rhythm of life. Conscientious, although slow in doing specific work. He does not like crowds, loud compliments. Another alias for this personality type is Advocate question.png.

He is quite insecure, uninitial, but able to force himself to do more if he is expected to.  Impressionable and vulnerable, hard to tolerate rudeness. It cannot put pressure on people, show aggressiveness, although it will respond sharply to attempts at dictate. The most powerful of his punishments is the complete disregard of man. His kindness can be abused, as it is difficult for him to refuse someone.
He tries to be firm and persistent in defending his interests, but this does not work well. In such cases, everything is usually limited to passive protection. He does not know how to defend his material interests.

 Drawn to the new, the unusual. He loves self-education. He knows how to force himself to be disciplined and executive. Shows thoroughness in details. Strictly adheres to the commitments made. In an official setting, it looks restrained and dry.


Feels comfortable in small but warm companies. He is critical of his appearance. Avoids catchy, eye-catching clothing. The main thing for him is not to irritate others with his appearance and not to excite unnecessary emotions in anyone, so they try to dress modestly, discreetly, comfortably and neatly. They do not like bright color combinations, prefer calm, neutral tones.

 

Relationships with others: best with Directors; conflict with the Conquerors. Judging by the statistics, such relationships are infrequent, due to the small number of duals and conflictors.

 

Strengths:

  • good understanding of human nature, human relationships;
  • sensitivity and attentiveness to people.

Weaknesses:

  • lack of determination and initiative;
  • Excessive care and over-detail in planning.
 

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"A bad peace is better than a good quarrel." - the basic form of his ethical strategy.

He has no desire on principle to cause anyone even the slightest bit of trouble. Trying to create conditions of maximum psychological comfort for everyone, everyone to bestow at least a grain of his warmth. Very sensitive to the troubles of others, prone to empathy. Has the ability to literally dissolve in other people's problems, especially if it is a problem close to them.
Good at discerning the relationships that develop between people. Knows who gets along or doesn't get along. Attitudes towards themselves grasps worse, so suffers from excessive trustworthiness. Honesty and decency in human relations mean a lot to him. He is able to forgive even his enemies if they sincerely repented. She maintains an even, friendly relationship with everyone.

Impressionable and vulnerable, hard to tolerate rudeness. It can't put pressure on people, force them to do anything against their will. Sharply responds to attempts to influence him with coercion or brute force. In such a situation, he is able to flare up, openly express his negative attitude. Internally, a very emotionally tense and nervous person.
INFJ Can break down in communication with loved ones if it catches them in lies, selfishness, indifference.
If, for example, someone from his environment falls ill, the "humanist" nurses him with exceptional dedication, regardless of his own strength, his health, or the danger of possible infection.

The "humanist" himself, who is not capable of treason and betrayal towards his neighbor, condemns these qualities in others.
Afraid of offending anyone with distrust. He considers distrust offensive to everyone, including himself.
He perceives the initial suspicion as something unethical and inhumane. For the same reason, it is sometimes impossible to convince him of someone's guilt (even if it is proven and obvious to others).
The actions of the "humanist" are largely determined by his personal likes and dislikes. That is, if he sympathizes with a person, he tries to ignore the fact of his guilt.
A "humanist" is capable of self-sacrifice in the name of love and friendship, for example, he can take on someone else's guilt, protecting friends from possible troubles, and because of this he himself suffers.
The "humanist" is not vindictive (to be vindictive, in his understanding, unethical), but he will not be the first to restore a damaged relationship until he is sure that his offender has realized his guilt. To get the "forgiveness" of the "humanist", it is enough to demonstrate to him your disposition. He does not like hard intonations in his voice. Speaking out in a categorical form is a big problem for him. His softness and compliance can also be seen as a consequence of his inability to be tough and categorical.
He does not like to be discussed about his strong-willed qualities. It is unpleasant for him to hear criticisms about this and realize the fact of his own lack of will.
Representatives of this type do not have punching abilities, they do not know how to work with "elbows". Moreover, any recommendation to develop assertiveness and perseverance leads them to extreme irritation.

A "humanist" is in dire need of a partner who can actively undertake to protect his interests, who can actively solve his problems and take him under his patronage. The most harmonious understanding between a "humanist" and his dual, who readily "takes under his wing", is very fond of patronizing both with work and advice. A "humanist" appreciates well organized working conditions - one of the reasons why he is most comfortable cooperating with "directors" (usually creating the most comfortable conditions for their employees to be successful and productive).

"INFJ tries to give as much effort to the work as the most thorough and highest quality work will require. So he can stay for overtime - in order to finish it on time, so he is often exploited.
Keeping order in the house requires a lot of effort from him (as well, if it were someone else), but if there is no other - forced to do everything himself. Is not tolerated in the house unnecessary things, and all that, from his point of view has no value - ruthlessly threw them. But what, in his view, is at least some value, carefully kept in the house. "The Humanist knows how to be frugal, knows how to treasure what he has.

He does not like to borrow money, but he readily lends money (if he can) Quite often it is difficult for him to recover from the debtor.
He tries to ensure that his own troubles do not spoil the relationship that has developed around him, so he is very careful in expressing his negative emotions. Rather complain to a stranger than a loved one. In the same way, he is more likely to express his deep fears and problems to an outsider.
Sympathizing and empathizing with the other, shows maximum tact and patience. Expresses condolences always in a very tactful and delicate form, so as not to sort out someone else's pain. A crying person will always be patiently calmed down, allowed to cry, without calling for restraint and without demanding to "pull himself together."

For all his reverie and detachment, he never forgets about scheduled appointments and planned affairs. What's more, it constantly reminds others of what needs to be done and when. Sometimes it seems that this is not a person, but a "walking clock": "Half past nine, why are you still home?!", "Do not forget, he asked to call back before noon. The concern of the "humanist" for the time of the people around him is primarily a form of expressing his attitude towards them.

 

 

INFJ Male Psychological Profile

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INFJ Male Psychological Profile

The young man "humanist" is modest, tactful and delicate, a great lover of reading and an intellectual in general. He has a quiet voice, a gentle look, an affectionate smile and a sublime way of thinking. Many people like to wear long hair, in modern fashion sometimes takes them in a ponytail. He does not pay due attention to clothes, believing that this is not the main thing in life, so he is dressed, as a rule, very modestly. Although occasionally there are among men of this type and real frants in expensive wide-brimmed hats and long coats. It all depends on the individual orientation of the character.

At school, boys of this type are usually transparent and quiet. They are welcoming to all children in the class, friendly, and always willing to step in for any student, whether they are a friend or just a classmate. But they are not ambitious, they do not fight, they do not fight for leadership. Are able to find a common language with almost any child. Pupils not bad, can valiantly cope with mathematics, but still they like to communicate more, they are more occupied with personal life of classmates, which they are quietly watching from the sidelines, much and dreamily thinking to themselves about everything that happens.

Despite his quiet nature and desire for a solitary existence, the young "humanist" loves people, and enjoys meeting them. Boys of this type are in companies, but even there to communicate prefer all the same one-on-one in turn with everyone who caused their interest or to whom they are attached. The character of "humanists" is soft and malleable, so he can be very responsive to the initiative of women. He acts like a gallant cavalier, making jokes and maintaining a soft, unobtrusive cheer. By the way, he is witty, so he may seem quite an interesting partner to his lady. As for himself, he most likes strong-willed, determined, reserved girls who always know what they want, and can tell you what to do in this or that situation.

Young men of this type make soft, compliant husbands. And they also know how to maintain an atmosphere in the house adorned with mild humor. However, you should know that, being malleable and meek, "humanist" at the same time is extremely stubborn nature and can quietly but insistently follow some of his rules. He may not be able to argue with you, but he will not give up his principles. However, he is usually non-confrontational, trying to avoid open confrontation. It is easier to guffaw, to translate the quarrel into humorous terms, the more so that most of the time he is good at it.

He chooses the same tactics with children. INFJ is a friendly friend and caregiver, quite pedantic but humane. He will not only help you learn, but he will teach you how to treat people respectfully and how not to lose your high goals and spiritual guidance in life. He has a strong attachment to his children and misses them if he is away from home for a long time.
They are punctual, quite thorough in their work and very responsible. Men of this type are passionate about the common cause. Their abilities have applications in a wide range of fields, from the humanities to the technical. They often work as school or university teachers, editors, journalists. But they do best in a career as a psychologist because these people are born psychologists.

 

INFJ Female Psychological Profile

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INFJ Female Psychological Profile

The definition of "Cinderella" best suits her.
She dresses really without excessive extravagance, but elegantly and tastefully. In a noisy company, he tries to take up as little space as possible. He doesn't even sing songs with everyone, but purrs the melody slightly audibly.
Because of the natural shyness, it is difficult for the "humanist" to take the first step towards acquaintance and rapprochement. You will have to go all the way, but it will be short... Before a date with her, it is necessary to accurately inform her of the time and place of the meeting, as well as to describe the future program point by point.

The "humanist" is not eager to work, but not because she is lazy, but because she is too modest in assessing her abilities. And in vain – it has invaluable data to perform scrupulous, accurate work. In addition, she does not weave intrigues, is not capable of lies and betrayal, and most importantly, is embarrassed to ask for an increase in salary.
"INFJ" is a rare type of woman who can cause the strongest affection without having the appearance of a movie diva. She is so kind and trusting that men often seem attractive regardless of the real appearance.

 This is one of the best marriage options for those whose ideal is a "quiet marina". (It will seem boring to others, somewhat rustic to others, but they do not argue about tastes.) The "humanist" has a developed sense of duty, she is tolerant of other people's weaknesses and therefore can get along even with a person for whom she does not have ardent feelings. And he will forgive his beloved a lot. Yes, they almost forgot about a rare quality for a spouse - she knows how to listen, moreover - listens to your advice! And rest assured, your mom will love it...

 In sex, he does not like abstract conversations, needs clear guidelines: you will have to explain exactly what you want and how. But do not fantasize too much - any of your instructions diligent "humanist" will follow literally. She does not show activity in bed, but also does not express complaints about the sexuality of the partner. Although, to be honest, she is closer to quiet ethical joys, like walks in the bosom of nature and long goodbyes at the entrance.
If you decide to leave, leave, you will not face any reproaches, no scandals, no revenge. Even if Cinderella is slightly offended, she will try not to give it away and quietly disappear from your life.

 

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